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living alone

Before I got my own apartment, I lived with a boy for a year and a half. We had our problems and differences, as all roommates do, but it was the best roommate matchup I have ever had. That is, until now.

Now that I live alone, I am the best roommate I have ever had. I never get mad at myself if the dishes are dirty. I never have to check with myself if what I am watching on TV is okay. I do not get mad at myself if I forget to vacuum the carpet. I can stay up as late as I want without disturbing myself. I never have to wait on myself to get in the shower. No one else eats my food. If I leave things on the floor, I am not bothered.

This is why when people arrive, unsolicited, to my aparment and mock its state of disarray, I am apathetic to their banter. As long as my roommate is okay with things, so am I.


10 Comments

but what do you do when you and your roommate aren’t getting along?

Posted by Jason on 25 July 2004 @ 11pm

Unsolicited? We bought you dinner. (Or rather, Dad bought us dinner.)

Posted by Emma on 26 July 2004 @ 1am

exactly. that’s a good justification for my situation…

Posted by Eric on 26 July 2004 @ 1am

Dude, I SO want to live by myself!! :)

Posted by Laura on 26 July 2004 @ 4am

I wasn’t referring to you, Emma.

Posted by Maura on 26 July 2004 @ 8am

I have never lived alone, I went from home to Sister and Brother in-laws. Then rooming house to Fiance’s house. Back to sisters then with wife and now daughter.

The rooming house was the closests to living alone and hated it, god I am such a Momma’s boy.

Posted by Rick on 26 July 2004 @ 9am

But then who do you blame when you don’t like something? Heheh. I live in an apartment above my parents’ house so I kinda sorta live alone. Kinda.

Posted by Kayleigh on 26 July 2004 @ 11am

You could always live with a guy like i do… one that cleans EVERYTHING- even my bathroom… has dinner ready when I come home from work… always asks what I want to watch on TV… and only plays XBOX when I am not home… NICE. :)

Posted by stef on 26 July 2004 @ 1pm

go maura! sing the praises of living alone. i know i do. i’ve shared a room since i was about 7, then moved to a dorm and had a roommate (several, actually).. after awhile, i decided i’d had it with co-habitation for awhile. now i live alone, and absolutely LOVE it.

Posted by richard on 26 July 2004 @ 7pm

I loved living alone, but I love having someone to help with the chores, too. What you really need is a BIG raise— so you can hire a housekeeper.

Posted by Erika on 26 July 2004 @ 11pm